People judging others?

People need to realize that people are people. That there should be no room for judgment. Those people who like to summarize you in one condescending paragraph, without talking to you, as lame as that sounds, it hurts peoples feelings. Because the same person you are judging, I guarantee you've been in the same place.





You say I complain? Haven't you?


You say I'm rude? Haven't you been?


I could be mad. You can't tell me you haven't been either, and not spoke up?


I have passion. Where is yours?


Personality?





I'm trying to voice my opinions, and say what I feel, and wonder if anyone else feels the same, not looking for someone to look down on me, and judge me.





And judge my AVATAR? I say I'm poor, you say, " Well, I don't think dirt poor people can have the time or money to dye their hair pink. "





Oh man.. maybe I just like my avatar, maybe that's how I feel, spontaneous, a little different than most.. Not taken literally.





Anyone else feel the same? I'm not looking for any rude remarks.

People judging others?
What you say is true, albeit a little obvious.





Most of it's about discipline and consideration for others. You'll find that either compassionate and considerate individuals, OR self-righteous, perfectionist individuals are the ones that will avoid being judgmental the most. Some people are a mix of both.





But realize that in society there ARE people who never complain, are never rude, never openly show anger etc. No one should use that as an excuse to be rude/complain/mad to someone and throw up the sign "DON'T JUDGE ME." and justify it because there is no real justification- you could've always, on the other hand, never done it.





The only negative thing they can do at that point is forget that some peopl aren't as nice, tolerant, stoic, compassionate as they are.





Honestly, some people can say no to those questions. I have never raised my voice and reprimanded anyone with curse words in my life, though I see people do it all the time. Do I judge those people? In the back of my mind I may look down at that negative behavior but I would never allow that to determine what kind of people they really are "overall".





We all have flaws.
Reply:Let me ask you something





You say I complain? Haven't you?


You say I'm rude? Haven't you been?


I could be mad. You can't tell me you haven't been either, and not spoke up?


I have passion. Where is yours?





The best way to avoid being called or seen a hypocrite is to admit your one and to accept you are one at times.