Why do people hate me?

I'm not popular, I'm not loud, and I'm not full of myself, I swear. I'm that really quite girl that sits in the corner and reads a book. I hardly ever talk to people I usually choose two people in each of my classes and , if they seem to like me and are nice, they are the ones I talk to and no one else unless it's absolutely nesecarry. I try to be nice to people who do talk to me I'm not rude to them I'm not friendly though I'm usually pretty short with them giving them simple yes or no answers and rarely offering any more than what they've asked. I tend to live in my own world I'm unaware of other people and their feelings but I don't see why people concern themselves with that as I don't concern myself with them. People I don't even know who are friends of friends have openly told me they dislike me ,mainly girl friends of one of my guy friends, people I thought were my friends don't like me and in fact can't stand me! I was so surprised because they talked to me first. I'm confused!

Why do people hate me?
hmmm, i think they might get the impression you think you're too good to spare them your attention. i was also the quiet nice girl back in high school, a lot of people told me i looked mean or angry, when in reality, i was just minding my own business. i did however think everyone was stupid. you probably do to. but, my point is, it sounds like you don't like them, you don't want anything to do with them, like you don't even care to make an effort. i'm assuming you're in HS. most HS kids are full of unnecessary drama. i think they don't like you because their self absorbed a**es feel you don't like them. they don't know what the real world is like. if this really bugs you (that they don't like you) make an effort, of be fake, they love that.
Reply:Hey there. Join the club.


The quiet kid always gets hated on. I know - we do nothing wrong! I used to be the quiet kid- now I'm the loner kid. I know this is sort of a pessimistic answer, but I'm speaking the truth- people hate me and call me mean- people that I have never spoken to ever in my life! The reason why? That is the reason why. You never speak to them, so they automatically assume that you're narcissistic or something. I am also really shy, though I don't know about you, so try speaking to more people. I hope this helped.
Reply:they are missing out on a very unique person and your a good girl and not all dramatic and you march to your own beat so do not worry who likes or dislikes you it was said to get a reaction. well they got nothing and that makes you good for not being a twit. and i like you because your you and God does not make trash people make them selves trashy.
Reply:Because you wonder why they hate you.


1. You're being slightly conceited by categorizing yourself the way you did.


2. People hate people who don't talk- they think you're secretive.


3. Yes or no answers are not what most people are looking for.


4. You can't spell.
Reply:They're the kind of people who get annoyed by every little thing. It's not you, really, because those people just get annoyed by the fact that you're shy (which most ppl dont get annoyed by), and since they have nothing better to do they hate you for it.
Reply:I don't know how to say this but if I was everybody else I would think u thinkur better than everybody else so u only talk to a few "chosen ones". Its not ment to seem as harsh as it sounds try and interact more with them by say hi in passing or something
Reply:it's necessary that other people hate you, but i think all the people who hate you are just insecure. just think that there is more people who loves you like your parents and your Best friend:)
Reply:since you dont talk to anybody people think that you think your to "cool" to talk to them so they stay away cause they think your concited which by the sound of your details i think you are
Reply:People probably dont like you because you are too quiet. that could make you seem wierd to some people. You need to talk to people and be more socialble
Reply:u sounded kinda conceited................ sryy
Reply:In general, people like to talk, interact, share thoughts, share secrets.... communication is the key. It is an expression of friendliness, caring, love...





Because you don't communicate much, people assume that you are "anti-social", that you don't care about them, that you think you're better than them so you don't talk to them, etc.





If you would like for people not to hate you anymore, try to start communicate more. Go and talk to others instead of waiting for people to come to you.





You don't have to start at school if you don't feel comfortable. First practice outside in the community. When you are in the grocery store, smile at strangers. When waiting in line to pay for food, etc, learn to ask "What's your name," "How are you doing," etc.





It's very easy: all you have to do is ask questions and they will do all the talking. When they ask you a question in return, elaborate on your answer so they feel that you trust them, then ask another question.
Reply:You're cool...(there will always be anywhere from 1 to 100 people who don't like you...it varies from person to person...even having a lot is normal...





When I was your age, I was the same way...but I hung around a select group of friends who "DIDN'T" hate me, and I long ago adopted the attitude that "Hey! If they don't like me, they can kizz my rosy oz, that's their problem, not mine, because they're making their own bed, so they gotta' lie in it, and once again they can kizz me rosy oz, if youze knows whaddeye' mean, and are catchin' what I'm throwin' atcha' 'ear...





That kind of thing gets less and less as you move up through the ranks all the way through college...then...after college...Everybody will love you, but YOU'LL hate everybody...go figure...hee hee.

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