Why are some people so bad and think that they can get away with it?

Other people DO pick up on it.





Some of these people chain smoke, act violent, do crime, drink, not care, do drugs, act nasty, basically all-around bad people, and yet they think they're entitled to it because life isn't fair or life sucks or they feel wronged in some way.





I mean do they not notice that other people pick up on their vibes/aura/karma, and some people won't put up with it?





I don't understand what motivates bad people to be bad, when you can literally do anything you want in this world and have a nice, pleasureful life.





I know that in America, there are SO many pressures, and falsities and hardships, at least on a SOCIAL level, and people get caught up into things and make the bad decisions, but why can't people treat their mental illnesses or get help, instead of taking out their hatred and ills on the rest of us in society? lol.





I never really understood the logic behind road rage, rage in public and Ahole behavior.





Any ideas?

Why are some people so bad and think that they can get away with it?
Because some people have issues. It is just so. I myself: I'm young, go to school and play an instrument, but often I lie, cheat, steal, vandalize and act violently in public OR private. Reason? My parents are often violent, and on occasion cruel. I can't get help because they have a do-it-yourself menality, and also would take my behaviour as a failure of themselves as parents but take it out on me. I'll probably suffer from the consequences for the rest of my life.





Some people need help.





"you can literally do anything you want in this world and have a nice, pleasureful life"


Some people can't. The bad things happening to them have shaped them.





Although there are the odd a**holes who aren't messed up in this way, but still think they has the right to feel wronged. They don't know sh*t.
Reply:Because i serioulsy thinki its the way they were brought up in the world, If the parents and there parents parents did not act this way, That child would be a doo gooder, She or her would act properly, I came from a good home, My parents were very excellent people for being a well to do family, and i really heard alot of flack , when i got married and trotted off to a bar bymyself, i was at age, and i i got drunk, I got alot flack from family and friends, it was only 1 day, i thought Geeze whats the big deal, Welll, i learned from it, Life went on, Now i brought up my son to be proper, its in the genes baby
Reply:Read Sam Pecks, The Road Less Traveled.
Reply:First try to ask yourself 'what is bad?'


Then ask yourself why you think it is bad.


You will undoubtedly see that in your view good=normal and bad=abnormal.


So what is normal?


Your normal is different to other peoples 'normal'.


We all take our own upbringing as normal. We must do so because we are aware of nothing else from birth until 'we go out into the world without a hand to hold us on the "normal" path. So each one of us has their own normality. Yes, even brothers and sisters brought up in the same household. You can not see out of another's eyes.


It follows therefore that a child brought up in a household of scroungers and thieves sees nothing wrong in scrounging and thieving.


Furthermore because we receive, in our own homes, TV programmes depicting all sorts of nastiness, and because it is not criticised as it is shown, because it is part of a play, or some such, it enters the child's subconscious as 'normal' because it has not been "corrected". Despite all the crap talked to the contrary, violent home computer games have an effect that is very similar. What we experience at home, and is condoned by our parents, becomes our normality. That is why you are struggling to find an answer to something that is "alien" to you.
Reply:Hey Mr. Cynical, why don't you become a priest?





Maybe it's not human nature to be civilized. That's why we don't have an inhibiting voice telling us not to act improper.
Reply:I think that we all have the same opportunity to every possibility built into our DNA, depending on what is explained to us as children as to why we are here and that we all have a part to play in this world and the only choice you have about that is wether you are gonna be a goody or a baddie depends on the value that that little soul is taught about itself. We talk to our children on the whole as if they are an inconvenience, we swear at them, we ignore them, i live away from the uk and where i live we have all nationalties coming on their holidays and it pains me to say this but British kids aswell as Americans are the worst behaved, petulant, spoiled, inconsiderate and ignorant of others aswell as arrogant and the reason for that is obvious when i stand near the playground listening to these youngsters crying out " Daddy come and push me ....Daddy .....Daddy please come DAAAAADDDYY!!" and Daddy is too busy reading his paper or playing his computer game to even acknowledged his kiddie. Thatincident alone will acount for the childs aggressiveness, its ignorance, its petulance and we have only got to the swings in the park.. Daddyneeds to realise that junior wont be there for too many years asking for his assistance and all too quick that opportunity to demonstrate "Yes my love you are much more important than my mindless entertainment"has gone but the fact he didnt get of his **** before even being asked is all ready sub consiously noted.. i mean come on that two year old aint going to ride the swing herself is she will leave an impression on that child every moment of that time of their young lives they should be showered with attention and love and then they wouldnt be so stilted as they mature into well rounded individuals whos priorities are good ones...it is Psycopaths that we are breeding who have no rationalisation after all where is the logic that Daddy takes me to the play park to read his paper....great what can we expect when we treat our children with contempt look at the internet and how we allow these people to glamourise Child abuse what a great message we are sending out. It is people who have nothing really to offer or so they have been conditioned into thinking, that display such inability of control and irrationality thats all they have been lead to believe about themselves. The next generation is a direct reflection of the proceeding one. sins of the Fathers.