Sunday, August 22, 2010

Why are people always trying to judge blacks as well as any race?

I have read alot of these A/Q stupid questions first of all black people aren't the only people with attitudes. I know for a fact that there are still some white people who look at black people funny and want evan talk to them because of there skin you can't tell me thats not rude. just because they wear weave doesn't mean there trying to be white, white people aren't the only ones with good hair. I think they have the right to wear and weave what ever they want with out being judged. along time black have been told there not cute there skin color is ugly etc but we have alot of white people getting tans to darken there skin some white people are wearing braids evan adding weave/ hair clips to there head and thats there choice there not judged for it and they shouldn't be just like blacks shouldn't be judged. I'm mixed with black and mexican I have a brown shade I'm proud because I'm proud and choose to show/flaunt it that shouldn't bother you open your mind stop being ignorant.

Why are people always trying to judge blacks as well as any race?
OOH I LUVVVV THIS QUESTION!!! We Blacks are frowned upon and discriminated against because for so long we were held captive as slaves,maids,and sexual beings. So why shouldn't we have an attitude or stick our noses up. On the other hand Harriett Tubman rescued us as well as people like George Washington Carver,Martin Luther King,and the list goes on of my many forefathers and mothers that said let me show the abusers that us Blacks can accomplish,invent,and rise to another level of high dreams,wants,desires,and hopes. When it was done,we still hadn't won because "they" still claimed our priveledged accomplishment was there's at first. And "they" continue on as of today making us work harder at success-shouldn't we be tired,pissed off,and noses in the air-hell my back hurts for my people.
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Reply:Because they are narrow minded and grew up with the mentality that their race is the only right race. God help them all!
Reply:gosh that's so true, good on ya for speaking ur mind!!!


Unfortunately some people will always judge, assume, ridicule another due to their race, colour, sex etc... These people are of course not worth much. Y can't we all live together in peace and harmony - so what if all our skin colour is not the same (we all bleed red!!!)
Reply:I agree with you soooooooooooo much but what can you do! People are always going to have something dumb to say about other people's ethnis background and I never understood that whole white people tanning shyt either especially if they are those type of people that don't like darker skin people why wpuld they then themselves get a tan 9maybe it's self hatred) who knows!!!!!!
Reply:cuz there hatin... the shoulnt look at the color of your skin, but they should look at how you are


Why do people hate me?

I'm not popular, I'm not loud, and I'm not full of myself, I swear. I'm that really quite girl that sits in the corner and reads a book. I hardly ever talk to people I usually choose two people in each of my classes and , if they seem to like me and are nice, they are the ones I talk to and no one else unless it's absolutely nesecarry. I try to be nice to people who do talk to me I'm not rude to them I'm not friendly though I'm usually pretty short with them giving them simple yes or no answers and rarely offering any more than what they've asked. I tend to live in my own world I'm unaware of other people and their feelings but I don't see why people concern themselves with that as I don't concern myself with them. People I don't even know who are friends of friends have openly told me they dislike me ,mainly girl friends of one of my guy friends, people I thought were my friends don't like me and in fact can't stand me! I was so surprised because they talked to me first. I'm confused!

Why do people hate me?
hmmm, i think they might get the impression you think you're too good to spare them your attention. i was also the quiet nice girl back in high school, a lot of people told me i looked mean or angry, when in reality, i was just minding my own business. i did however think everyone was stupid. you probably do to. but, my point is, it sounds like you don't like them, you don't want anything to do with them, like you don't even care to make an effort. i'm assuming you're in HS. most HS kids are full of unnecessary drama. i think they don't like you because their self absorbed a**es feel you don't like them. they don't know what the real world is like. if this really bugs you (that they don't like you) make an effort, of be fake, they love that.
Reply:Hey there. Join the club.


The quiet kid always gets hated on. I know - we do nothing wrong! I used to be the quiet kid- now I'm the loner kid. I know this is sort of a pessimistic answer, but I'm speaking the truth- people hate me and call me mean- people that I have never spoken to ever in my life! The reason why? That is the reason why. You never speak to them, so they automatically assume that you're narcissistic or something. I am also really shy, though I don't know about you, so try speaking to more people. I hope this helped.
Reply:they are missing out on a very unique person and your a good girl and not all dramatic and you march to your own beat so do not worry who likes or dislikes you it was said to get a reaction. well they got nothing and that makes you good for not being a twit. and i like you because your you and God does not make trash people make them selves trashy.
Reply:Because you wonder why they hate you.


1. You're being slightly conceited by categorizing yourself the way you did.


2. People hate people who don't talk- they think you're secretive.


3. Yes or no answers are not what most people are looking for.


4. You can't spell.
Reply:They're the kind of people who get annoyed by every little thing. It's not you, really, because those people just get annoyed by the fact that you're shy (which most ppl dont get annoyed by), and since they have nothing better to do they hate you for it.
Reply:I don't know how to say this but if I was everybody else I would think u thinkur better than everybody else so u only talk to a few "chosen ones". Its not ment to seem as harsh as it sounds try and interact more with them by say hi in passing or something
Reply:it's necessary that other people hate you, but i think all the people who hate you are just insecure. just think that there is more people who loves you like your parents and your Best friend:)
Reply:since you dont talk to anybody people think that you think your to "cool" to talk to them so they stay away cause they think your concited which by the sound of your details i think you are
Reply:People probably dont like you because you are too quiet. that could make you seem wierd to some people. You need to talk to people and be more socialble
Reply:u sounded kinda conceited................ sryy
Reply:In general, people like to talk, interact, share thoughts, share secrets.... communication is the key. It is an expression of friendliness, caring, love...





Because you don't communicate much, people assume that you are "anti-social", that you don't care about them, that you think you're better than them so you don't talk to them, etc.





If you would like for people not to hate you anymore, try to start communicate more. Go and talk to others instead of waiting for people to come to you.





You don't have to start at school if you don't feel comfortable. First practice outside in the community. When you are in the grocery store, smile at strangers. When waiting in line to pay for food, etc, learn to ask "What's your name," "How are you doing," etc.





It's very easy: all you have to do is ask questions and they will do all the talking. When they ask you a question in return, elaborate on your answer so they feel that you trust them, then ask another question.
Reply:You're cool...(there will always be anywhere from 1 to 100 people who don't like you...it varies from person to person...even having a lot is normal...





When I was your age, I was the same way...but I hung around a select group of friends who "DIDN'T" hate me, and I long ago adopted the attitude that "Hey! If they don't like me, they can kizz my rosy oz, that's their problem, not mine, because they're making their own bed, so they gotta' lie in it, and once again they can kizz me rosy oz, if youze knows whaddeye' mean, and are catchin' what I'm throwin' atcha' 'ear...





That kind of thing gets less and less as you move up through the ranks all the way through college...then...after college...Everybody will love you, but YOU'LL hate everybody...go figure...hee hee.

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Why are people saying Obama hates/racist towards white people?

I always read on message boards and blogs and other crap where people always say Obama hates white people yet what i dont understand is if he hates white people wouldnt he hate HIMSELF, his mom, his grandma since he is 1/2 white himself.





I find it funny, if he is pro white people say he will hates blacks if he is pro black people say he hates white, if he is in the middle people say he hates both.

Why are people saying Obama hates/racist towards white people?
because the want people to believe them so the do not vote for him.








it is one of the many faults of the elections.
Reply:Okay so just because he is 1/2 white doesn't mean he cant hate whites. Hitler was 1/2 Jewish and you see what he did? and Obama when to a church who wouldn't accept his mother or grandmother because they were white. it was a church for only blacks and they extremly hated white people. His pastor was on TV the other day talking about him and there church and there beliefs about white people and how they hates them and crap. But like i said before Hitler was 1/2 Jewish and hated the Jews. Obama is the same way just with whites instead of Jews.
Reply:Why do white people always call someone racist if they talk about America's past and don't agree with it. What type of mess is this, is their conscious so guilty they want us to just forget. Why is it wrong to "white people" to talk about America's racist past. We talk about what Hitler did to the Jews, and why Jewish people hate Hitler. Is that wrong too, would the Jewish people be wrong if they hated Nazis and what it stands for. Hmmm! So Obama says he relates more with blacks, hell in America if you have one ounce of black in your blood, they will call you a n****r. Obama is half white, raised with his white family( mother, grandmother, sister who is 1/2 white also.) I think some Americans need to wake up, smell the coffee. America's history is not clean, America has so much blood of other races on their hands. Obama thinks he can change it, give the man a chance.


PS: to soccer if you researced your information you would see that The United Trinty Church has 1/2 white and 1/2 black congregation. I wonder why white people would attend a church that is so racist towards them.
Reply:Maybe because he does and if you listened to him speak you would know this. He joined the trinity church so he could become known as a black man, he had a white girlfriend in college, but got rid of her, because he did not want to be a part of the white race basically, he calls himself a black man yet he is half white, why not call himself white, read his book and you will see in it that he wants no part of his white heritage. What more do you need to see he does not like the white race.
Reply:Well that is America for you...


It is a big thing to have a black candidate who so far has a big chance of becoming president and of course you are going to hear that he is racist. Same as Clinton, I'm sure you have heard her as being sexist. It's America... people... you will always hear criticisms of all kinds no matter who the person is. It's the media you are hearing and people who listen and agree with it. You cant change that, it is very unfortunate. No one knows who to vote for anymore because the media and the anti's and pro's can demoralize a person, none of us will really know who they truly are.
Reply:People say this because they have actually read his own words in his own books. You should to, it might shed some light on the real Obama. The books are good, because it is the real Obama, before he decided to run for president. Before you decide to support a candidate, it is your responsibilty to do your own research. Otherwise, you will come off looking foolish. Which is exactly what Obama supporters look like right now.
Reply:This is why some of us would call this the Black Hole syndrome. He can't if he could but won't because he might.





A difficult decission and it really is the ying and the yang of Barck Obama.





Most just figure on him as black as that is how he looks. But he has lots of white in his black.





A hard mess to call or to take chances with.





I'd rather not.
Reply:Ya know, that is a good point, I was thinking that myself. What I don't understand is, how he can still be friends with this Rev Wright character, When in fact as you mentioned it, his G-ma and mom are white, yet Rev Wright said those horrible things about white people. What's up with that?? Ask people that question
Reply:brother, where have you been....he has been a member (20 years) of a separatist church...that is very racist toward white and very pro the black agenda and Anti-American....he never mentions his mother or grandmother...he only claims his black heritage.
Reply:Go to his website and under his people, look for the white race. The last time I was there, they were not listed, however the black race was up there with a few other races and other minority groups. It's not fair and balanced.
Reply:He is the evil anti Christ and he hates everyone in the US and wants us all to burn cause he didn't wear the right button on his shirt or jump and wave at a flag.





Obama 08
Reply:I suggest you read his books. Then you will see that he hates white people, capitalism and America in general.





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Reply:The people who say he hates whites have read his books in which he constantly trashes his white heritage.
Reply:Because hillary voted several ways on Iraq and Nafta and has no record so relies on this crap
Reply:Because they are desperate to try and stop him. It won't work though.











Obama 2008
Reply:Its his alignment to islam and hamas!!!!!! and this is still America, lst time I looked.
Reply:You heard about his black supremacy church and the rev Wright, right? That's why.
Reply:it s called self loathing
Reply:READ HIS BOOK
Reply:because they have nothing else on him
Reply:well its not true and he should win
Reply:Well said my friend. It's their own hatred they put on display. Really pathetic. Really sad. But it is their right to display their idiocy.





Almost as bad as making a big fuss out of his middle name Hussein, when John Sidney McCain shares the same first name as noted serial killer John Wayne Gacy. Both mean nothing.
Reply:They quote mine, take things our of context and make up outright lies.





You could do the same with any of the candidates and come up with any result you want.





There is just a small but active group of Obama haters who can't get over his middle name and his skin color.


Why do racist people say black people are monkeys or chimps???

I don't see the resemblence at all. Monkeys can't have curly hair. Their hair is always straight. Black people can only have curly hair. Monkeys have those aposable feet or whatever. Black people don't. Monkeys either have a greyish face or a peachish face. Black people are brown. The only thing I can think of that black people and monkeys have in common is they are both from africa. But monkeys are from other places too. And giraffes can only be found in africa so why aren't black people called giraffes? I don't get it. Why do people call black people monkeys?

Why do racist people say black people are monkeys or chimps???
it's an extremely insulting and racist thing to say. it's a way of saying they're not fully human. they can act like humans if taught to do so but they still aren't humans. if you hear this you should not take it as being just a stupid joke.
Reply:Don't be offended by people saying this because honestly they're talking about themselves because at the end of the day EVERYBODY came from a damn ape!
Reply:They don't have curly hair, it's kind've nappy, but can be nice silky and smooth. They call them monkeys and chimps because they are both black/brown, whatever you'd like to call it. Sometimes based on their behaivor since balck people tend to get angry if someone gets them the slightest bit mad they go and throw a tantrum thinking they can beat anyone up, as along with chimps and such. Just think about it..
Reply:Because Racist are dumb stupid and they need Jesus
Reply:Evolution. All humans come from monkeys, including whites.
Reply:I don't know.The next time you hear someone call us a monkey. Ask them why they said it and I bet they will either get smart with you are give you a dumb answer.
Reply:HEY! I'm cute!
Reply:People that say things like that are Jackasses.
Reply:It isn't because of looks. It is an insult which insinuates that blacks are not as evolved as the rest of us. It infers that they are still savage or animal like. Get it now?





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We didn't all evolve from monkeys. Humans and monkeys share a common ancestor, but that is different than saying we came from monkeys. Pay attention in science class people.
Reply:racist people are ignorant, and they think they say things to insult others, but racist people are so stupid that they have no idea that by calling black people mokeys and chimps, they are calling black people extremely smart, cause thats what mokeys are, they are so intelligent that they are the second spicies in earth close enough to relate to us humans, so thats means, that mokeys are smarter than humans themselves, so this means that black people are smarter than racist people.
Reply:Good questions racists of all races are idiots there is nothing ratiinal or understandable about how they "think" Ur right it makes no sense neither does ****,kike, honky, ******* or other eiphets used by dumbasses
Reply:well if you want to go the scientific route, there's a theory that all humans came from monkeys...not just blacks. so i couldn't tell you why people say that.
Reply:Ignorant people have ignorant comments. Isnt it pathetic all the hate on this? Its really sad. And there arent enough Americans standing up for their brothers and sister in their own country. The blacks have fought in the same wars with the white and they were put in the most dangerous positions and many lost their lives then they sent in the white troops. People of America stand up for the people that help build your country. Stand up for the mexicans who are also building your country at half the price you pay a white man. If you want a strong country it cannot go on with such deep divisions.
Reply:I guess is because monkeys have black hair or most of them at least...but that's not only here, other countries do it though
Reply:I've always wondered the same thing...
Reply:Thanks for posting this question.
Reply:I asked someone who said that once, At first he couldn't think of anything then he said that black peoples skulls slope like a monkeys.??? i dunno what that means tho
Reply:That's simple, because those people making those racist claims are morons.





I think the morons are disagreeing with me. lol

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Why do people think its safe to meet people in a nightclub than off the net?

Why do people, often parents, accept that it's safe to go out to a night club or pub full of drunks, drug addicts and anybody who walks in off the street? They also don't mind if their kids then walk home alone at 3am or get into any car outside the club and all that is seen as being ok and safe.





Compare that to meeting someone you've spoken to for months in a busy shopping centre in the middle of the day where everyone is sober and there're plenty of people around. Explain to me how that is more dangerous!?! I'm just curious as to why some people have this total dread and fear of the net and assume everyone online is dodgy. Don't these people understand that they themselves are online and that people on the net are the same people you meet out and about?

Why do people think its safe to meet people in a nightclub than off the net?
due to the nightclub nannies outside
Reply:It's because you can make assessments about people face to face using many indicators, including non-verbal and body language. I mind very much about how my daughters will get home and they are sensible enough to ensure they always have the cab fare home, and use reputable, established cab companies. Sadly there are people on line who are not who or what they claim and it's impossible to make a sound judgement about someone you have never met and cannot see. I would hope if one raises their children right and instills decent values, you/they can trust their judgement when assessing whether or not a person or a situation is safe.
Reply:Well online you could be talking to just about anyone. Their motives could be to steal your identity, rob you or just play with your head. Until you meet someone and talk face to face you just never know. You still need to be on your guard no matter how long you have talked online. Meet in a public place. this person could be anyone and not really the person you think you know. Keep your guard up until you are sure.


Beautiful People?

Society determines what is considered "beautiful". Millions people want to look like the fake images in magazines and on TV, but very few (if any) ever reach that regardless of how many boob jobs, nose jobs, botox injections they may get. If so many people are wanting to look a certain youthful, beautiful way, then why is it when they see ACTUAL real life people who are naturally beautiful without alll the fake surgical crap, they make rude comments, they assume that she's a slut or he's a gigilo, they start rumors about them, consider them to be conceited before they ever get to know them as a person? It's an observation that I just don't get. If people (not all people obviously) spend all this money on clothes and fake surgical procedures to be what they think is beautiful, then why do they seem so resentful toward people who they are trying to look so much like?

Beautiful People?
Yeah I'm hot too. Its a crime I swear. People eaither want to control you or verbally attack you. I mean I'm totally hot and I dont even workout much, is being sexy a crime?
Reply:Jelousy they want the true ugly people to look pretty and the true pretty people to look ugly Fake Beauty=Health problems later on in life, Natural Beauty=Consider Real and gifted you can be ugly and still be beautiful only if natural u get wat i mean?
Reply:Clearly because of jealousy. They are upset that someone else has achieved this same "ideal" of beauty that they themselves have worked so long to achieve for themselves.
Reply:lol, they do it out of jealousy! whenever someone feels threatened by someone who is more talented or beautiful, they will not hesitate to bad mouth them because they are jealous and insecure.


xoxo


Ofelia.
Reply:Jealous.





People should not look at magazines or watch TV there is your solution.


Why do people always asume childfree people will change their minds in the future?

I mean, seriously. I've seen a lot of answers on my questions, and they say that I'll change my mind in the future, which is highly a doupt. I don't want kids! I been thinking that way for 4 years.





People say they don't want kids ever, and people just change their words and say that they will someday, like jeez. That's very annoying!





Why do people assume that? It's none of their business! If people say they don't ever want kids, then they don't want kids! It's the childfree person's life, not those who assume that!





So why do people always asume childfree people will change their minds in the future?

Why do people always asume childfree people will change their minds in the future?
It annoys the h*ll out of me when people say that! I have known since I was 15 that I did not want kids, and have never even once thought "oh maybe" or anything like that. And I am well enough into my adult years to know it is never going to change. Another ignorant remark that annoys me is when people say "people who are barren/sterile just say that to cover up that they cannot have children". I am NOT barren, I DO NOT want children.





One good thing to do, if they keep pressing you, is ask "why did/do you want kids?"
Reply:I am right with you. I have been hearing about kids, and when are you having kids, and don't you want kids (no), and youir mother wants grandkids (no, she doesn't) as far back as I can remember. Now when people ask me, I give them the real reasons in response: We are not ready for children. We do not have enough money to give them the life they deserve. We have things that we must do first. We have personal issues that we have to deal with, that would be unfair and inappropriate to bring children into. I married in my mid-30s, and it will probably be too late by the time we can provide them with a good, stable environment.


But people STILL say, "I can't wait for you to have kids!" Well, I feel sorry for you, because you will be waiting for a long time.


There are 6.5 BILLION people in the world. Why is it so important to others whether we contribute one or two more?
Reply:People in general should really mind their own business. Why should someone's preference for kids or not bother them. Not wanting kids doesn't mean they are selfish.
Reply:Most of the time people are a bit self-centered and can't see past their own happiness or ideals. Happy parents can't always understand how others can have fulfilling lives without kids and unhappy parents tend to project their jealousy of a free lifestyle onto those who chose not to have children. I myself do not want children and face this comment often, particularly from my boyfriend's family. I just brush it off as rudeness and presumtiveness that some people are self-centered in their opinions and not at all open to what might make another individual happy. Some people just don't understand that kids aren't for everyone. But if someone really cares that much about your decision that they're trying to make you feel guilty or like a bad person for it, you don't need them in your life anyway.
Reply:I wonder the same thing. I don't want to have kids. I would rather have 10 dogs and cats and have the opportunity to travel the world. Plus kids are EXPENSIVE. I would rather spend my money traveling the world then providing a life. Maybe when I'm done traveling I will adopt but having kids...not for me.
Reply:Well I know for sure that I will never have kids, unlike the previous answerers on here. I don't want kids either. Well, it's probably because I'm gay and I know 100% that I will never get with a girl or adopt any children.
Reply:i think that a lot of people do not want kids until they meet a potential partner.. then the nesting thing hits you and so on.. sometimes these people who do not want kids find each other and it works out well.. unfortunately i think more frequently that people who do not want kids end up having them to satisfy their partner.. these children always seem to know their one parent didn't really want them..
Reply:because the people saying that are people who either HAVE kids or WANT kids, and its hard for them to imagine anybody not wanting to have kids. Plus, lots of people who say that they don't want kids do, indeed, end up changing their minds.
Reply:They are just plain rude. Have you not noted how so many "self proclaimed correctors" there are in the world. They think you have the right to their opinion. They think they have the right to tell you how to live.





Also you have to keep in mind that most people don't know that having children is an option. So many think that you must have children, and that is just the way it is.





I was in the military almost 20 years ago. Being child-free then was very uncool. I had a Chief Master Sargent that had no use for the child-free. He felt that I was some kind of "nutcase" that had no place in "his" military. Back then the military was not made up of enlightened thinkers (before the Clinton years). I was even suspected of being gay because I had been married for 5 years but had no children. They sent me to see a psychiatrist were I was asked a lot of questions about my sex life.
Reply:I've been told they say those sorts of things on the basic principle that "Misery Loves Company!" They don't want to feel "alone" in their misery of child-rearing.





I made the decision in college that I was NOT "mommie" material, and did not wish to have children... PERIOD. I have kept to that promise, and no amount of cajoling on others' parts has ever swayed me.





Sometimes I joke about not having children, because if I did, I'd be in jail on child abuse charges by now. The usual response to that one is, "Oh, it's DIFFERENT when they're your OWN." This is a total fallacy, it is NOT different when the children are your own. In fact it is WORSE. The majority of people in prison on child abuse charges are NOT STRANGERS but the RELATIVES of the children. So, statistically, it's worse when they're "your own."





As for your last question, many people actually DO change their minds, or more accurately, they have their minds changed FOR them because they were not "careful" enough with birth control methods to prevent the conception.





When people "push" you about the child-free issue, simply tell them, "Sorry, but I don't think I'd be as good a dad as the child deserves." That might change their thinking, that you are not being "selfish" but actually have considered the needs of the child.








Have a polite day.
Reply:As life goes on, many people do change their minds so they are assuming by experience you will change too. How many times have we changed our minds while growing up from years 5 to 8, 8 to 10, 10 15, 15 to 20 etc...What used to be yucky way back when is really cool to experience now...





As we allow change to take place, and we stop trying to control, we grow and learn that half of our reasons for not doing something was simply our own fears, lack of faith or what ever to avoid ..It is called maturing...





But as you say, you do not want kids and it is about you...not the kids or a wife...and that is your free will and choice.
Reply:I was one of those people and then i fell pregnant and had a beautiful baby boy. And my though was, i cant beileve i could have missed out on this experience. I love him more then anyone or anything in this world.


One last thing there called CHILDREN or a CHILD. Kids are baby goats and just so unpolite.


Why do people hate white people?

Yes white people have done very horrible things IN THE PAST.





stop worrying about the past and move on to the future.





Yes, there are some certain white individuals who are very bad. But why do people use those individuals as stereotypes for the white race? If that one individual does something bad to one person , then that one person hates the whole race for no reason but out of ignorance.





Also, white people have done many great things. Just imagine what the world would be like if it weren't for the inventions and discoveries of white people.





White people don't even do bad things now, like before.





I'm not saying that the white race is above or below any race, for all races are equal.





It's ignorance that demoralizes a person.





If a group of black people were being jerks to me, I would only hate that certain group, not the whole race.





And this is a message to you racists out there, what if you were born white? We CAN'T control the color of our skin or how we are born.

Why do people hate white people?
I think its odd when "white" people hate or dislike their own skin so they get a tan sometimes at a salon which just turns them orange. Though it wouldn't hurt to get some sun once in awhile, its good for you despite what you might have heard.
Reply:some peopl hate whites and some hate blacks. but i still think that more whites hate blacks than blacks that hate whites.
Reply:Well, Whites dominate everything nowadays. As they did in the past. Whilst their are much better rights, and a lot more understanding compared to the past horrors, Some people still remaing stuck in the past. These ignorant people i believe, are making it worse for the whites. Whites stereotype people from all races, im not saying it's only the whites here okay, Black people can be racist as well, just look at the Genocides in Africa (and thats Black on Black).





Living in a white dominated country, you take a lot of slack. And it's very sad indeed, to see that racism is alive today, even with todays global village. I think it's just in people, to judge people on differences. we do it every day, and not neccesarily on Race. But, sadly, for the whites, your history on racism is quite ****** up. And to this day, their remains racism in all forms. And its most unfortunate as well........
Reply:why does anyone hate anyone


and why does it have to be discriminatory?


Racism is ignorance.
Reply:its partially how there raised. I think about this same thing all time I mean why cant we just all be considered equal like MLK wanted and so many others have prolly wanted were all the same if you take away the skin maybe we should just paint are selves one colour and see if it makes a diffrence lol just a thought but rasism is so old skool ya know. I mean I will admit it isnt as huge where i live but you see it in even the smallest things like riding the bus or sitting at a lunch table at school or even going into a library and I might get a weird look like I did something wrong when I havent ever im just minden my own bussiness and im white by the way and I liek everyone I just dont like people haten me for being what I am and ithis same thing relates to people haten america thet wanna blame the whole country for there problems when they should say the goverment so I consider that kinda racism or it prolly has a larger word but im with ya on this good question.
Reply:I was raised in a cultured family and I love evryone but you missed an important detail in your equasions of color. Do you know that 90% of serial killers/rapists so on... are actually white men?


So when you say it is in the past, believe me there are things in the present that are just as concerning.


We should be wary of all people, because all people are not equal...however much we wish they were.
Reply:dude they are jealous why do you think those blacks claimed alot of europes inventions.
Reply:I don't hate White people. I only dislike racists and ignorant people (from any race). I do agree that not all White people should be put into one whole and its the new generation. Also White girls are very beautiful to me.





I know your not talking to me but I just wanted to answer. =)
Reply:Everyone is racist even if they say they're not, it's an underlying thought. Everyone at one point in their lives have had a racist thought even if they don't admit it.





But, I don't think people of other races hate white people, we just recognize that we live in a 'white priviledge' world where white people do have **** a whole lot easier even when they don't realize it.





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Why do people pick on Police just doing their job?

I've worked in policing in Australia (but I'm sure it's similar everywhere) and have always been astounded at the attitude of some members of the public toward good people doing a great (but thankless) job. Put yourself in their shoes.





I've heard them all:


* Abusive people (even when I'm sure they know they've done the wrong thing)


* Threats against police (including making false allegations against the cop)


* Idiots when they are locked up bashing their head against cell doors causing concussion


* People who run from police and insist their innocence when caught (oh yeah... why run then idiot?)


* People who think the police are picking on them (No they're not, they have a job to do and you are picking on them)


* People who call the emergency number with no emergency at all - sometimes to just be abusive.


* People who call the emergency number repeatedly because the police haven't turned up after just 1 minute


* People who think driving offences are not real crimes





Why?

Why do people pick on Police just doing their job?
All I can say is this. I have read some of the answers here and some people talk about cops shooting people 60 + times and all. Don't be so quick to judge until you are in the cops shoes. You go in front of a police simulator, and I bet you will shoot an unarmed person, who you think is going for a weapon. And if you don't shoot and the person has a weapon then your DEAD. You won't see your mother ,father, son, daughter, in short family ever again.


Sure to some the badge of authority goes to their head, as in any job. People who work with other people in an office go through the same thing. Ever work with someone and once they become a supervisor it goes to their head, and they are not the person they used to be. The authority goes to their head. So what the difference here?


Better to be judged by 12 than be carried by 6
Reply:As in any profession there are good and bad,I remember about the guy getting shot multiple times. I know they are under stress, however they took the job knowing what it consists of. If you cannot handle the job, and you still want to wear a badge, go be a school crossing guard,then you still have "power" over something.
Reply:These are the kind of people that you as a "public servant " are paid and should have been trained to deal with. As far as the majority of people of sound mind.. We are fed uip with police abusing the authority that we as a society give up so that you may deal with scum. Not people who are hard working, going through a badf time or who have made an error in judgement. All officers of the law should be able to tell the difference between the two, and if they can not, perhaps they do not deserve to wear the badge they were givin and should look into a new line of work.
Reply:Most people do not like authoritative figures it gives the feeling of not being free and evokes defensive emotions when the authority is directed at them. I think most people do appreciate what law enforcement does for them and our society but there also are allot of law enforcement officials who take advantage of their authority and that makes people even more skeptical.
Reply:some police are ok some aren`t, soon as they have a uniform some people change and think they are above authority, I have had to call the police a few times to my pub, by the time they had arrived everything was quiet and sorted,, I don`t bother now unless it`s really serious some are a waste of space, I complained about 1 police officer and the week later we were raided for drugs, none was found but they made a mess, christmas decorations were pulled down the tree on it`s side they didn`t even apologise or put things right. i have no time for most of the police, little hitlers!
Reply:Maybe the same reason why cops insult citizens who TOS their violations here too...
Reply:Because i hate obvious "authority"-------And why do some cops think they are soooooooooooooooooo much better than everyone else? And use the badge and the gun to feel self importance and holier than thou?-----------Nahhh i just try to avoid you guys as much as possible.
Reply:I don't know, but I will say this. I have ran into cops in my day who go out of their way to give someone a hard time. I have seen them lie, and plant evidence.


I can remember one time when I was about 14 when they had a guy who was a drug addict running around trying to buy drugs from kids. Well this guy ended up framing people just to get the money so he could buy drugs. Later on it came out that this same guy (he was 26) was having sex with 13 year old girls.


Anyways the cops knew this, I know they did because I told them. However they went ahead and filed charges against these people anyways. After knowing the this guy framed one of them for sure.


...So anyways after seeing something like that when I was a kid, well I have lost my faith to say the least.


The fact of the matter is that their are some good cops out their, yet there are way too many bad ones. Maybe if the good cops would do their jobs and get the bad ones off of the street this would not be a problem, and we could go back to the times when people had respect for the police.
Reply:It is easy and on YA it is relatively anonymous.
Reply:They think it empowers them. If Police didn't have to use restraint on idiots, they might think twice before they mouthed off to a cop.
Reply:Because absolute power corrupts absolutely. police officers are held in such high regard that they can do no wrong. Thats BS. Cops are people too, and they make mistakes - and usually not held accountable for them. Question: Officer, why did you shoot and your pals shoot that guy 62 times? Answer: We felt threatened Question: Was he even armed. Answer: No, but he could have been. LOL. The US criminal justice system is such a joke. BTW - the police actually did shoot the guy 62 times - happened in VA Bch, VA and guess what - not a single cop was charged.
Reply:Some people don't like what the police have to say... people don't consider their feelings as a human being.
Reply:because their attitude while doing their jobs or because they are not doing there jobs correctly.


your question is really short cited. how do u think people would react if you asked:





Why do people pick on President Bush for just doing his job?
Reply:Generally because they are either guilty, dumb, full of themselves, antisocial and/or just don't respect the law. We can't expect police to apply the law arbitrarily - but plenty of people do expect special treatment and that's the problem most of the time (in the examples you've given).





There are some dodgy police out there (and some very nasty rascist, bigoted ones too - just as there are in any profession) but most are trying to their best in a thankless and complex job. And if they're not doing it perfectly sometimes we should cut them some slack - they put in 12 hour shifts (often sleepless overtime), have to constantly deal with idiots and are human too.





And they are under constant pressure should they put a foot wrong and end up in court. It's not a job I could handle. If it's your job, I do wish you the best and thank you very much for doing it.


Black people are overwhelmingly christian. Why do black people usually vote for a democrat then?

The democratic party supports homosexuality and are proponents for the aclu and other organizations that attack christian beliefs.





The majority of black people believe that homosexuality is a sin, but support a politicial party that contradicts their morals.





Sure, there are many traditional christian democrats who don't support homosexuals.





Yes there are homosexual republicans.





If you look at history you will see that democrats overwhelmingly oppose many christian beliefs.





People say that democrats are for the average or poor people and republicans are for the rich.





The fact is the middle working class is left out by both parties for the most part. Poor people qualify for many government programs, but middle class people are left out of those programs and have to work their *** off and not get ahead and live pay check to pay check

Black people are overwhelmingly christian. Why do black people usually vote for a democrat then?
Because they are intelligent Christians...
Reply:There are approx 35 million African Americans. We are not monolithic. Although we tend come from Christian backgrounds...there's a lot of difference among people's personal practices. For some their political choices are very much driven by their religious views, for others, not at all. African Americans have been much more focused on issues like economics, healthcare, jobs...those tend to be priorities set above whether or not to support homophobia on a national scale.
Reply:Well, when I was growing up and a member of the Young Democrats, it meant fighting for the rights of the underpriviledged like blacks, etc. NOT homosexuals. Today's democratic party has now become socialist and today's republican party has now become democratic. I am still a registered democrat but now vote republican usually. I did vote for Jimmy Carter and Bill Clinton. My husband votes the person not the party usually, but he is voting democratic regardless of the nominee because he is tired of a republican president.
Reply:unlike you, i can't speak for black people or any other ethnic group.





i don't make generalizations about a group of people nor do i stereotype them.





that's ignorance and pettiness to the nth degree and that's too beneath me.





and if you think it's only the middle class working their behinds off, then you are sadly mistaken.





nobody works harder than the working poor, you hear?
Reply:I'm white, straight, married, Catholic, and a Democrat. I don't support gay marriage, to me marriage is a Holy Sacrament, but I believe in civil unions. I don't claim to understand homosexuality. I've had openly gay and lesbian friends, very good friends. Homophobia is a cancer to society. I don't agree with abortion although I agree with Roe v. Wade because this is the USA and woman should have the right to make that decision. There are too many gray areas to just outlaw abortions outright. Actually, if you look at history, you will see that the Democrats overwhelmingly support many Christian beliefs. Maybe just not the ones the so-called religious right advocate.
Reply:Because, while most blacks are Christians, they realize that they do not have the right to tell people how to live their lives.
Reply:Racist Much? Wow.. Thanks for the 2 points!
Reply:What is this fixation on Black Americans? Both the Republicans and the Democrats oppose Christian beliefs. Were it not true, we wouldn't have the corruption we have in government.
Reply:Christians also believe that you should take care of the poor, love thy neighbor, and treat others as yourself.....are they honestly supposed to vote republican?
Reply:Why does religion always have to come up in this election? We should be looking at the issues and deciding who the is the best person for the country.
Reply:Because their politics are more important than their faith.
Reply:Most black people are Baptist. First you should say Africa Americans, so being one myself I was taught that one should not be judgmental to others only God him self can judge on someones sins. What someone does in his or her home does not put sins in mine. And if you really are into the church you should know that one sins is not greater then the other all are sins in Gods eyes.





And most people live pay check to pay check. Not all people quantify for the programs the government give out. I make less then middle class but more then the average poor so I pay for food, rent, daycare, and college with two jobs.
Reply:Maybe they actually believe in the TEACHINGS of Jesus...
Reply:Because most are not rich. Like the majority of the population. I am a middle class Christian, and do not like some Liberal stances but I also know that most haven't and never will affect my life. I hate the ACLU because they defend the minority and piss on the majority of us. However, the blatant push to make the rich richer and let corporations evolve into monopolies in the name of capitalism is killing the working class. And those are conservative ideas and do affect my life. So, I can see the black people's point, regardless if they are on welfare or not. And i really don't think most welfare recipients even bother to vote.
Reply:Christianity is a movement of tolerance and love for all. Those who condemn others are Christian in name only. Jesus showed the way but didn't push/force/shove/drag others onto it. His example was to live truth and love for all mankind, especially the "sinner."
Reply:ok let me explain something to you,YES there is alot of black christians AND yeah republicans are all into this christian blah blah nonsense BUT Republicans are too damn...hmmm how can i explain this....its like god does this,god does that,god is the greatest and u know what,i'm tired of hearing all that **** and yeah i'm christian.If your christian,why not support gays? Cuz "god" said it was wrong...give me a f***ing break,god didnt write the bible,man did and yeah...jesus aint real.
Reply:People vote for the candidate that promises them the greatest impact in their life.





I can simply say that I am a Christian, but I am not voting for Huckabee. I voted fro Mitt and he won in my state. I believe that I'll be left with McCain (pun intended).





I voted this way because I want the US safe, lower taxes, health-care left to the states, not the US government. Did we not learn anything from the Katrina FEMA show?





I would prefer to vote for Huck, but I don't want to take the chance of Hillary or Obama getting in.
Reply:I don't think that voting for a Democrat is inconsistent with being a Christian. The country was founded on principles of separation of Church and State. Those are not just words.





I do think that many Republicans, in the past, have been caught with their ethical pants down, so to speak (Mark Foley, Larry Craig) as have many Democrats (Bill Clinton, Obama's plagiarism of speeches and cocaine use, etc).





Blacks have traditionally voted Democrat, regardless of what the Democrat stands for. They are a voting bloc, and in this case, they are voting for their race. I don't think that is necessarily sensible but everyone is entitled to their vote and opinion.
Reply:White conservative christians sin just as much as the gays and abortionists they criticize.





There was a white conservative preacher in Montgomery AL this past summer who was found in his house tied up in black leather gear, with gag balls in his mouth and another man's semen all over him. He accidentally suffocated with a plastic bag over his head. The deacons found him on a sunday morning while they were waiting for him to come to church. True story.





Mark Foley? Larry Craig? Republicans are the biggest liars of them all.
Reply:alot of reasons





the Repubs tended to be against the civil rights movement of the 1960s





the Nixon Southern Strategy that pitted white republicans against blacks





ever since republicans have become the party that apologizes for racism in its own ranks (david duke, etc) and does little to change that perception





there are plenty of economic reasons too, real and percived that push them into the Dem party
Reply:You really need to stop with all the stereotypes and color issues.
Reply:now we have white peoples questioning the black vote . all i have to say on this issues is (black power) don't underestimate it as Hillary Clinton have and McCain will in this presidential election . obama for president 2008
Reply:B/c it seems these 2 candidates speak about HEALTHCARE for all (a Christian thing, to care for the sick). B/c they care about the POOR, the mentally ill, the weaker members of our society! Do you remember that if you feed and cloth one of the poor people, you feed and cloth Jesus himself? I wonder whether YOU practice that.








Sexuality is just one of 100,000,000 Christian issues. Why don't you mention caring for the poor, for the sick, for the innocent..
Reply:Because their leaders tell them too (and their leaders make all kinds of promises to their clergy).
Reply:Why does religion have to ever enter into Politics? Politics are SECULAR. PEACE!
Reply:Contrary to popular opinion black ppl are not mindless little sheep lacking the ability to think on our own.


True the Republican party origianally was designed for the underdog and the Democrat party (being the oldest party) was not. During the days were blacks were being given the right to vote Republicans were for it and the Democrates were against it, but after all that came to pass the Republican party became less and less about the Republic and more and more about the haves and the have mores.


No one likes to be told how to live their lives by strangers. Most real Christians that actually follow the teachings of Christ rather than try to play His right hand executioner, know that there are many sins. All of which will lead u to hell, but the Republican party and their followers simply want to focus on two...abortion and homosexuality. Ignoring the fact that lying, stealing, cheating, backbiting and killing anyone (including those u demonlize for ur own propaganda) will put u in hell right next the gay person u hate so dearly.
Reply:They are trained that way.





My boyfriend is black, and very conservative. He tells me his mom will always vote dem, even though it will hurt her, because that is the way she was taught. His sisters, who also have nice careers, vote the same way.





BTW.... He is a dental tech and his mother is an RN, nothing about welfare in this family, not all blacks are for handouts. They bettered themselves on thier own, not with help from any dem program.
Reply:The Democrats have been successful in convincing Blacks that they support them. Although, they do nothing for Blacks other than keep some of them dependent on social programs. Black social leaders preach that the Black community needs to be independent of social programs and needs to sustain itself, but then they turn around and throw support to the Democrats. It doesn't make sense.
Reply:Because welfare and food stamps are democratic programs.
Reply:Because they listen to Jesse Jackson and Al Sharpton instead of Alan Keyes.
Reply:So the welfare will flow more easily.


Why are people so small minded, and hyper? like children.?

What I mean is, why are people always so hyper and only seem to be in the here and now, wherever they are, that's where they are, they take everything at face value. Like if they're at a mall, they're there, and they react to people around them, it's just strange because, don't people have any intellectual or abstract thinking to them?





Can't they be in the mall, or at work, wherever, and perhaps have other things going on in their heads? like insurance, vacations, thinking about other things, and not focusing only on the here and now, present moment, and the total BS that goes on, little things, like what other people are saying, wearing, doing, etc.





For example, I walk through the mall and I'm in my own little world, and I pass by people socializing and other people just doing their thing, and just b/c I'm not engaging in their mood and spirits, I'm all serious and disengaged, they give me these cold "ugh" "eww" or whatever looks.





Why are people SO ignorant like this? seriously?

Why are people so small minded, and hyper? like children.?
Immaturity %26amp; Ignorance and a touch of youth!





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Reply:THEY JUST DON'T WONT TO GROW UP, IT'S THAT SIMPLE..
Reply:Whats wrong with children u make us seem like the arogent ones. comparing us to the ppl u r descibing


Some people!!!.... Have you........?

Ever notice that a lot of people on here go through and give a "thumbs-down" to intelligent answers, but then some ridiculous, short one-line answers that don't make any sense get all the "thumbs-up?" People on this site get a little personal, and just go through and give "thumbs-down" to all the answers given by people they don't like. I personally think it's hilarious how ridiculous some people get. I know we're entitled to our own opinions, which is why I can say some people on this site are just complete idiots, lol!


Have you ever noticed people who get too carried away on here?

Some people!!!.... Have you........?
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Reply:Um yes....


why state the obvious?


The losers and haters are here, just like everywhere in life.


How about those who even CHANGE their answer after reading yours.?
Reply:give people opportunity together with an annomous way forward and they will always have a field day eh lol
Reply:My dear friend K. C. you hit the nail on the head!!!!! GOD Bless you.
Reply:yes many times. happens to the best of us. My honest answers get thumbs down too.
Reply:Yeah, I know, I think people post their own answer and then thumbs down all the other answers, maybe to try to get the person answering the question to think that the other questions are crap and give them top answer?
Reply:Yes, absolutely. I just made a post about this last week! I hate it when people give a thumbs down on well thought out answers.





We pretty much came to the conclusion it was because they were jealous that they couldn't come up with a good answer themselves or because they had a personal difference of opinion with the answer.





I wish there was a way for Yahoo to monitor too many thumbs down on answers that were actually GOOD answers.
Reply:I agree!
Reply:Yes, but i don't let it get to me.. There are other things going on in this great big world.


I'm starting with the man in the mirror.
Reply:undoubtedly! i used to spend all of my time in the pets section. being a vet tech for 4 years and a cruelty investigator for the last 2, I think I know a thing or two about animals, yet I get a million and one thumbs down. People are threatened by other's intelligence, which makes them ignorant, even if they are intelligent!
Reply:yes they write this over heated messages like is their problem or business
Reply:I try to give an intelligent educated answer to questions that I answer. It irks the crap out of me that these idiots get on here give an answer my 2 year old would give and then "thumbs down" everyone else.
Reply:Yes I have.





They do need to lighten up a little.
Reply:lol yea dats how the world is they dnt feel like readin or they cnt so they just pick the short stf cuz theyre dumb
Reply:Is this a rant?


Is it a Rave?


Am I invited?





Calm down don't take it too serious, it's just fun to some of us.





LOL
Reply:yes!!! it bugs me soooo much! because sometimes i spend like 20 minutes on an answer and someone puts a thumb down which makes the person asking the quetion think it was a bad answer. sorry if that has happened to u!!! lots of love


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Reply:oh yeah. they try to sound all smart and stuff. i bet they like search for the answer instead of saying wat they think
Reply:lol..ya!i wish there is no thumbs down option at all...
Reply:O yea!! Quite funny....but also sad too! lol
Reply:yes.. like for example, i just got two points for this answer.. just for agreeing with you! AND i'll probably get at least a thumbs down for it. LOL
Reply:I only thumb down the offensive remarks.
Reply:yeah some people are really lame.


They have nothing better to do.
Reply:uh huh some ppl are wierd lol
Reply:I don't pay any attention to all that thumbs up or down thing.
Reply:only yours
Reply:They are Fuking gay that's why.
Reply:Ya like when I see I get a few thumbs down in a day...it makes me cry myself to sleep at night.....who cares!!! It's just a lil added feature to let people express their opinions. It's just an opinion...no need to take it too seriously.
Reply:Yes it seems that some people take it a little too personal or too far. Some answers are way out of line I will admit that. I have reported a few people. I usually only report people when they make sexual comments to underage people. Like if a girl posted about her health down there and states her age of like 14 and some jackass posts back about how he can help then that deserves a report filed on them. Thats usually only when I do something beyond rolling my eyes and moving on to the next question.

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Why do people answer other people's question in a rude manner?

Are people really so bored that they have nothing better to do than make other people feel bad? This sight is for people to be able to ask questions and get honest feed back. Why do people join this sight just to hurt other people? If you're not going to give an honest answer to an honest question then why bother? And if you're not on this sight to ask for legitimate advice then why are you here in the first place? I asked a question earlier, and this has happened to me on more than once occasion, and someone had to make some rude comment and I know it shouldn't bother me but it does. And I've seen other people get rude answers to their questions before too and I feel bad for them. So I guess I'm wondering what the heck someone is even doing joining this sight if they don't actually want REAL help with something or genuinely want to help someone else?

Why do people answer other people's question in a rude manner?
I HATE that.
Reply:Hmmm... lots of answers to so many questions...


Yeah, some are bored. Some are downright or plain rude. Some think their answers are funny, without considering how it will affect the asker. Some don't really ask serious questions, too. Some people are here just for fun, unfortunately, some cannot "ride" on the jokes cause maybe, theyre not in a "game" mood. And also, you cannot question other people's motives. Since you are here, just expect that some or most people even will not always be at the same "wavelength" as you are. So, it's actually a case to case basis. And who are we to question what's going on on other people's mind. I think you can see out right which answers are serious, and which aren't. Just have fun.
Reply:Kids will be kids and some just act dumb for their own gratification. What do you expect out of thousands of people. How they are here is probably how they are in real life so don't worry about them and ignore them.
Reply:People do get enjoyment out of it...Like watching comedies where people hurt themselves.
Reply:When you ask one question to a million people, you had better be ready for anything. Maybe you should not ask questions here if you're so sensitive.
Reply:The Warm and Fuzzy Answer Brigade supports nearly every stupid question asked by anyone. If you want honest answers, then lots of people are going to be offended. If they are that thin-skinned, then this is the wrong site for them if they simply can't ignore the answers they don't like.





More often than not the rude answers ARE the honest answers. Some of these dolts need a verbal slap in the face to realize that the world doesn't revolve around themselves.
Reply:Everyone is here for a different reason. Your in the etiquette section so I 'spose you could expect a reasonable amount of respect, BUT, this isn't a serious forum; do you really think everyone here is here to legitimately answer serious questions?
Reply:either the truth hurts, they are stating a fact, they are having a bad day, want to cut another down a peg, or don't understand how the asker doesn't know the answer to a simple question.





it happens, it sucks, but don't dwell.
Reply:You can't fix the world, you will always hear about the "smart" people with their "smart" answers, whatever, pick what sounds good to you and be happy that your not one of "them" :)
Reply:actually, most of the time i do not answer rudely. like now, i cant stand rudeness, you need to know how people will feel like when you are rude. u need to care 4 pple! plus, can i hav my answer chosen as the best plz?
Reply:maybe because you are fat, ugly and your questions are stupid. I don't see another reason. Anyway cheer up, fortunately there are many nice honest guys like me.
Reply:WAH BOO HOO! This question answer stuff is all lies anyways, if you want real world SH IT get off the stupid computer and live in the real world cause the computer ain't the real world. Guess that's the kind of answers you're talkin bout Right?!
Reply:yes..and...stupid questions deserve rude answers...ye reap what ye sow....


Why are people horrible on yahoo??? please share your views!!!?

i ask questions on yahoo and all people can do is criticise my spelling when the only reason i do it, is to save time and type quicker! i asked a question about what the american states are and all people were putting were you must know what they are to compare the answers to, well i don't i just thought people would tell the truth and not lie because what is the point of lying just for 10 points??? and because i put i live in england but it would be useful to know the american states, a woman from america put why do you need to know them and if you want to go anywhere go to school to learn how to spell and as i said the only reason i do it, is to type quicker!!! i thought the reason for yahoo answers was to help people with their problems not to critise people about silly things like spelling or questioning people about why they need to know what they're asking! and by what questions they've asked in the past you can tell some people are adults but i'm only a 14 year old kid!!!

Why are people horrible on yahoo??? please share your views!!!?
I'm Not sure why some people are like that to be honest with you it's tough to tell why





Yea that is the point of this is to help people with there questions but there's going to be someone like that in every crowd





Don't worry about it





Unless they say how old they are or it's on there profile page there really is no way to tell to be honest with you . I mean you can venture a guess but you may not be right if you know what i mean





Don't worry about the ignorant people there's people like that everywhere





I am 32 years old and even i face that





Just keep bieng you don't let anyone else change that
Reply:Its because people feel safe behind their computers and they lack common decency.
Reply:Poor grammar is a touchstone for a lot of people on Y/A. Especially since there is a Spell check feature. Your time savings is lost in translation time, and your questions are not taken seriously.
Reply:Google US states and I am sure you can find a list. Is your time so valuable that you cannot spell check. Many people are nasty because other people are in too much of a hurry to find something for themselves.
Reply:honestly i think people are cruel on here especially because well you'll never know who they are. they would be too much of a coward to ever say such things to your face, but on here, you'll never know what they look like, who they are, where they live, etc. unless they want you to. so just ignore the meanies, and try to be respectful yourself. you can only hope someday others will do the same!
Reply:I didn't read all of your question because it's so long. But why would you not check spelling in order to get your question posted faster? Why would speed matter or how fast you get it done matter? I don't criticize spelling, but I don't like it when something is a total mess spelling-wise. It's hard to read. I don't know what truth has to do with American states. But that's IS an odd question. There are 52 states.... I'm sure not going to sit here to type each and every one. If anyone were to type "US States" into Google, I bet the very first site shown would be a list of all the states.





I think everyone should be conscientious about their spelling and grammar, but I do think it's rude to point out peoples' mistakes. But getting it done fast isn't a good reason for sloppy spelling. Sorry. Your spelling will improve if you work at it, and if you care, but doing it on purpose for purposes of speed.... doesn't make sense.





(if you were REALLY trying for this question... you can use the spell check or look it up if you're not sure.)


Why do so many people hate America?

It's so stupid! Every country has done something in their past that their not proud of. Many people need to realize what happened in the past was our ancestors! As that is the case with all countries. America has made some stupid mistakes but so has other countries. Im so sick of the stereotype that all of America is fat,uneducated, and are a bunch of fools. Let me tell you this because I live in America... Their is alot of smart,beautiful, and nice people. People need to understand that every country has it's bad people and it's good people. I don't hate any country. I know that their is good honest people in every country. Their is beautiful people in every country. Their is good hearted people in every country. Every country has bad people to. What do you think about this? Thank you and God bless.

Why do so many people hate America?
I don't know about anyone else, but personally, as a natural-born (NOT my choice!) US citizen, I'll tell you why I HATE America!





I HATE that America was stolen from the Native Americans who we brutally slaughtered almost to the point of extinction, and that this country was built on the backs of blacks who we kidnapped from Africa, forever severing them from their families, their roots and their heritage, bringing them to this country in chains just to sell them, and exploit them for the rest of their lives.





Like Mickey Z says, http://www.informationclearinghouse.info...





I hate America for the near-extermination and subsequent oppression of its indigenous Native American population.





I hate America for its role in the African slave trade, for unfairly imprisoning thousands of innocent Japanese-Americans in internment camps during World War II, and for dropping atomic bombs of innocent civilians in Hiroshima and Nagasaki .





I hate America's control of institutions like the United Nations, World Bank, International Monetary Fund, and World Trade Organization.





I hate America for propping up brutal dictators like Suharto, Pinochet, Duvalier, Hussein, Marcos, and the Shah of Iran.





I hate America for its unconditional support for Israel. I hate its bogus two-party system, its one-size-fits-all culture, and its income gap.





I hate that we are taxed for EVERYTHING under the sun from birth to death AND BEYOND, and instead of the money going for schools, roads, police and other vital services, as it was originally intended for, that instead it goes to line the wallets and pockets of money-grubbing politicians and their government agencies like the IRS, ATF, FBI, DEA, ICE, and the rest of the alphabet soup in Washington that do nothing but bleed its citizens of their hard-earned money.





I hate that despite being taxed for EVERYTHING under the sun, yet public schools are crowded, underfunded, and in horrible shape, the roads are cracked and full of potholes everywhere, and police, fire and other vital services have had to slash their budgets, because of decreased funding.





I hate that leaving this CESSPOOL excuse of a country is not enough to stop this money-grubbers of America - the only country besides LIBYA to tax its citizens on WORLDWIDE INCOME regardless of residency. I hate that even escaping this HELLHOLE and renouncing citizenship is no guarantee against the GREEDY US government who can still tax former citizens for UP TO TEN YEARS after renunciation if in their arbitrary opinion they think that the renunciation is purely tax-motivated. I hate that America keeps its citizens locked into their country in a virtual financial PRISON!





I HATE America for wasting $40 MILLION dollars of taxpayers hard-earned money to investigate the sex life of a President, while MILLIONS of people are uninsured, and the working poor have to struggle and work 2 or 3 or mor jobs just to make ends meet and yet often have to choose between getting medical care and just putting food on the table.





I HATE America for thinking that they have the right to invade any country that they choose, just because they don't want to live by our standards, when we are not one to talk, and our own society is falling apart.





I HATE America for wasting BILLIONS of dollars and THOUSANDS of innocent lives on a NEEDLESS war in Iraq, when the alleged threat, Saddam Hussein, who we ourselves created, is no longer even alive. I HATE America for wasting BILLIONS of dollars on this SENSELESS war in Iraq when MILLIONS of kids are starving and eating dirt and bugs in Haiti, North Korea, Sudan, and other poverty-stricken countries.





I HATE America for its gas-guzzling SUV driving yuppies with cell phones glued to their ears who have no concept or interest in world affairs and care nothing about anyone outside their immediate lives.





I HATE America for allowing useless vapid tramps like Paris Hilton, Nicole Ritchie and other wastes of space, to garner all the media attention while important issues like Female Genital Mutilation %26amp; the genocides in Darfur, Rwanda and other places barely get a mention if anything at all.





I could go on for pages but I'll sum up with this: I hate America for being a hypocritical white Christian supremacist homophobic capitalist patriarchy.
Reply:we are hated because of the government


it sticks there nose in other country's tearing up there country's killing there people


there are good and bad in all races all country's have the good and bad but the pea on's set back and haft to go by what the governments say


like mass destruction -we never found it - if so what was it beans !


come on them country's are tired of USA sticking there nose were it does not belong we had many killed for a no plan to get our troupes and boys home cold turkey it pull are boys home let Iran go for it self put a freeze on rent- food- oil -


gas- keep our jobs here instead of going to other country's we spend how much money on this war ? how much money going to the sky and we have are own in streets homeless -medical suffering -i beginning to hate the government not the country
Reply:i dont "hate" america .. , i "dislike" the USA. the way you pose this question should help you answer it yourself. "Americans" have a tendency to not give a c*** about anyone other than themselves. I'm not saying that they wont lend an egg to their neighbor, but for the most part, since there is this huge understanding that there is the "american dream" and everyone wants to come here to escape the oppression of their mother nation, then its like tickling the ego of a king.


Just the fact that we call it "america" when there are 2 other countries in NORTH america, and there is a much larger SOUTH america is a prime example of the elitist point of view that "americans" have.
Reply:Hate is a powerful word...an emotion that can cause harm to others. It obliterates good judgement, changes decent people into obnoxious (and sometimes violent) individuals/mobs. It is sad when people, who need to be right all the time, think they are.





America is not "pure and without sin". I know you were just trying to point out that America is as good as it gets (and I agree), but America is run/influenced by individuals who are sometimes motivated by self-serving interests rather than looking out for the good of the country. So, in some instances, America does not come off looking like the great nation it is/should be.





America has strayed from it's founders' ideas for a great nation, which was based on Christianity. We were great when Christianity was at the head of this country. Because believing in God and following his word does not allow certain behaviors (encouraged by the devil, himself), there are those who have chosen to "change" what is right to fit their wants and desires. Sin catches on easily...so, we are becoming a mess...and it shows to Americans and to other countries. (Of course, jealousy is a common thread too).





We still have a great country, but we are in need of some good, old fashioned values. We need to follow God's rules and get back into shape. It will take some doing, but those that believe need to stand up and say, "This is my America too, and we will follow God/Christianity!"
Reply:For your own good, the good of our country, and the good of your argument, learn the different spellings of "their"... Sorry, I normally don't point out grammar and spelling mistakes because I make them too, but you made that one like 4 times.





I agree with you though. People are actually jealous of us because we DO control the world (at least for the time being). And to be honest, we are a little fat and uneducated on average. Americans are very selfish and very greedy in general. I tend to be more of the "we should improve it types" though. Just like how we stereotype British people and their horrible teeth, we get the blunt of some stereotypes too. It's how the world goes.





Right now people like you and me need to pick up our books, hit the gym, start driving a car that's economically efficient, work hard, and start trying to understand cultures that are different than ours. After this we can make our country what it really could be instead of debating it on online forums. We are Americans, our actions speak louder than words. peace and God bless
Reply:It's more Jealousy than hate,and who is the first country to come to the aide of any country no matter if their government despises us or not,"America."
Reply:Please be more specific. What do you mean by "so many people"? If you're talking about those in the Middle East, then you really ought to do a bit of research into your country's history of foreign policies between themselves and the Middle East. Then perhaps you would know why they take a dislike towards you. How sad that even a single American should wonder...
Reply:i dont hate america..i think america is cool...better than the shithole country that britain has become!!!!
Reply:I don't hate America, I like it in fact. The US would be near perfect if:


a) People could spell correctly words such as "its" instead of "it's" and "there" instead of "their". Those are different words, get it? Don't be angry but the language should be preserved and not destroyed.


b) The Americans weren't so selfish that they're always worried about cutting down on taxes even if it's at the expense of the poor.


c) The Americans hadn't started the anti-cigarette crusade that spread to Europe and which is, to say the least, irrational.


d) There weren't all those so-called Christians whose major aim is to send everybody who disagrees with them to hell and interpret the Bible literally.


e) The Americans had learned by now (after all the killings) that gun control could indeed be a good thing.


f) There weren't those Americans who believe they are the center of the world.





Apart from those things, I love America and I wouldn't even dream of *hating* it. I don't hate anything and I don't hate anyone.





@ those who say everybody wants to move to the US: *that* is ignorant. I, for example, don't want to move to the US. I wouldn't mind living there for a while, sure. I love a vacation in the US, there's so much to see and do, sure. But if I had to move somewhere, I'd move to, say, France, or the south of Spain, or Greece. I'm not looking for the American Dream because we already have a lot of that here too and it's not as nice as one could think.
Reply:.. I Live in aMERICA, i was born and raised in the USA, most people hate America cause they are Ignorant,..How many People do you se trying to get in other Countries.......


America is the Greatest Country in the world, BY FAR
Reply:Nobody likes the top dog. It's human nature. Nobody liked the British when they were running things. Now that America is number one in the world, it's our turn to take the heat.





As you go back further in time, you will find that the Ancient Egyptians, the Ancient Athenians, the Romans and the Spanish and Austrian Hapsburgs were disliked by all of their neighbors too during their pinnacles of power.


Why do people always insist you can't love 2 people at once?

I've seen a number of questions where people have said they think they love 2 people, or something to that effect.


Every time that happens, there are a load of people saying that it's not possible, that they don't love either, or it's just infatuation.


Yet we happily accept that a person can love their husband and child at the same time, or 2 children. Why is it that loving 2 people romantically is not possible?





I'm not looking for people to give me answers citing morality, as that doesn't prove it's not possible, it just goes to right/wrong.





I have at one time loved 2 people romantically, and it was a confusing time. Does anyone else have a similar experience to share?

Why do people always insist you can't love 2 people at once?
Up until the point of realizing you want to spend the rest of your life with the person, it's very possible that it can happen. However, when it gets to that point, I think your love for one would take away from your love for the other. With that happening, it could ruin both indefinitely. I know everybody feels it's "taboo" to love two people when it comes to romantic love, but it is definitely something that should be thought about. If you'd like to talk about the concept to have another mind to discuss it with, feel free to contact me.





Heath
Reply:i personally thought that it's impossible as well. until my best friend shared her problems with me.


now i do feel it's possible. but we should not allow ourselves to get to that stage whereby we find ourselves loving two people at the same time and dont know who to give up on. it's a horrible experience.





if you have the time to spare, do help me out too.


http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:It is possible to love two people romantically on a short term basis, but it's nothing that will last a lifetime. Either by your choice or theirs, sooner or later one of them will have to go. Also, I think it's important to know that loving someone romantically, (just sex is really all it is) and loving someone romantically and EMOTIONALLY (as a husband and wife does) are two totally different things. The difference being that anyone can romance another because romance is a skill, but emotions are coming from the heart!
Reply:Hell i love more than 2 people.
Reply:You can love as many people as you want.


To actually be in love with a person is another.


You didn't love 2 people at the same time. You made love to two people at the same time big difference.


Child you love them both but love for children is not the same as love for husbands.


There is different levels of love.
Reply:The love of husband and child are two different types of love. That's why is so easly to love them both. Theirs the love of a relationship and trust, romantic love which is husband. The love of a child, which is care and parental bond.





I don't think it's possible to love two people romantically at once, i think their can be confusion between those two love, theirs lust and love. It's so easy to think you love someone, but the actual word is more powerful than that, and sharing that powerful love can't simply be devided in two. Here's a good example, having a guy best friend that cares for you, watches over you and is there when you need them, his love can often be confused by the one of a boyfriend.





Wanting to be intimate with two people at once doesn't mean you love them, maybe theirs certain things you love about each one of them that makes you think you do. I believe true love is hard if not almost impossible to find, and once you find it you wouldn't ask people if they've experienced it or loved more than one person.





Once your inlove you know it, and theirs no questions in your mind or confusion. I met someone that told me she fell in love with all of her boyfriends, she had 8 exes and each one of them was her love. I think alot of people are inlove with "LOVE" what it represents, the action. That may be the confusing part.
Reply:you can think you love as many people as you want , but if you truly love someone you would turn down the sexiest girl in the world for her because you love her and no one should compare.i supposes everyone is different and there is no textbook for 'falling in love' but i really dont think you can love two people properly at the same time, maybe you love one but just fancy the other or like being with them, but you dont love them both.
Reply:You are right. It's possible to love more than one person at a time. It doesn't happen all that often, but it does occur occasionally.

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Spanish people are white right?

Spanish people are white right?but why do people not consider them white in my life ive seen many spanish people from (SPAIN)and they look european white ive seen some with blonde hair blue eyes brunette all kinds so why do american not consider them white are they just too ignorant and whats latino got to do with this topic they are just mixed spanish and aztec.since all western american countries think if u speak spanish or your from south america they will think ur spanish.. but they are not spanish..only (SOME OF THEM ARE MIXED SPANISH WITH SOME AZTEC OR MAYAN ANCESTERY)why are people so ignorant i am from spain my self and i once went to america and a guy asked me where i am from and i said spain and he was like stop lieing spanish people have brown skin and they look like mexicans..i was angry how ignorant people can be and the lack of easy knowledge for them to understand.

Spanish people are white right?
Spaniards are indeed white. Only idiots would deny that they are European and Caucasian.


I've never seen a Spaniard who looks like the stereotypical Mexican that the American media shows. I pity the people who are so ignorant to think that all Spanish speakers look the same. Even in South America there are many people with only European heritage.


I am also Spanish and I many of my relatives have light eyes, blonde hair and pale skin. I myself always get asked 'how come you can't tan, you're Spanish?' because apparently we are all very dark. It doesn't help when people say they are 'Spanish' but they actually are Latin American. Or how Antonio Banderas is shown as the typical Spaniard.
Reply:Race is actually defined by craniofacial anthropometry, not skin tone.


Of course Spaniards are white, as are the Portuguese, Sicilians, Greeks, Armenians, Lebanese, etc. Never, in my nearly sixty years, have I ever heard anyone refer to Italians as not being white until I joined YA. Report It

Reply:There's a misunderstanding about these terms "White" and "Caucasian". "White and "Caucasian" are terms almost solely used in the United States. If one wanted to be technical, Caucasians are actually people from the Caucasus regions, which include countries like Georgia, Chechnya, and parts of Russia. But when most people use "Caucasian" and "White", they are referring to people descended predominantly from England and Germany, perhaps Northern Europe, to be more broad. That's why people from the United States don't necessarily consider Italians "White" or "Caucasian", or any other ethnic group from the Mediterranean.
Reply:no...they are hispanic....
Reply:Honest answer is Americans are ignorant. Spanish people are Caucasian. The only reason they would have any kind of mixed blood in them would be from the Moorish invasion which lasted until 1492. Some Moors stayed behind and converted but they were technically still North African.
Reply:look americans are dumb they say italians arent white but they are. they think that just because the skin isnt white the person then isnt white but thats not right. my dad has kinda red skin, black hair and brown eyes but hes 100% lithuanian. and i was born with blonde hair and blue eyes. if you go to europe since i was born and raised in europe europeans arent like that europeans know that they are white. did you know that in europe there isnt any middle east or native american races theres just black, white, and asian. thats what they taught in my school anyway.
Reply:spain is a european country, any one with a mediocre IQ knows that.....





white is an american term used ignorantly to define the world, so why do u want to fit in it so bad?





look at latin americans, many of them are of german, english, even white american descent





I know of mexicans who are white too and descend from europeans like the french or dutch menonites





do u see them making a huge deal that people think every one in latin america are indians? NO





also you're quite IGNORANT YOURSELF to claim that people in south america descend half from spain and half from aztecs, mayans etc.





have u ever been to latin america? they have tons of people of german, japanese, lebanese, african, italian, UNMIXED SPAIN, and so origins.





SPAIN IS NOT THE EPICENTER OF THE WORLD AND MANY PEOPLE DONT KNOW ABOUT IT, SO POP THE BUBBLE.





YOU'RE NOT THE ONLY NATIONALITIES THAT GETS TO DEAL WITH STEREOTYPES ALL OTHER COUNTRIES TOO.
Reply:funny how you claim Spaniards are white and then you make a really dumb statement like latin americans are mixed spanish aztec mayan





I've been to latin america and I've seen people whiter than people from spain, I've also seen many latin americans who are black, chinese, german and much more origins





perhaps you're the one who needs to get educated first?
Reply:umm.


actually, historically....


northern spain was taken over by celtiberians.


as in celtics (like ireland?) so they look more european.


but in southern spain they have moorish descent (muslim, african, etc.)


so in different parts they have different skin tones.


and most of the spanish people in the west came from southern spain.


so, yeah.


there is some reason to it
Reply:Dude, switch to decaf.
Reply:They're definitely not black. They're white. If you were to take a black person with an hispanic person and walk them down a racist neighborhood they would be hating on the black person first because the hispanic look white in their eyes,
Reply:Yes I believe that Spanish people are White people. But some of them have slightly darker skin because obviously Spain is a hot country.
Reply:Where was this guy from? I think people associate white as being caucasian, not necessarily light skin color. Middleeasterner are technically white (even though they have darker skin color) but, they are caucasian. Scientists have separated humans into different categories by certain features of the skull shape. Look it up - you'll find answers there.





You got ONE guy who didn't know something. Americans aren't that ignorant - some of us are actually from Mexico, Europe, Africa, China, Japan, etc, oh and even Spain!





Don't judge the whole country based on one idiot!


People this is the cutest ever.?.lol?

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26 Things That A





Perfect Guy Would Do











1.. Know how to make you smile when you are down .





2. Try to secretly smell your hair , but you always notice.





3. Stick up for you, but still respects your independence .





4. Give you the remote control during the game .





5. Come up behind you and put his arms around you .





6. Play with your hair .





7. His hands always find yours .





8. Be cute when he really wants something.





9. Offer you plenty of massages .





10. Dance with you, even if he feels like a dork .





11. Never run out of love .





12. Be funny , but know how to be serious .





13. Realize he's being funny when he needs to be serious .





14. Be patient when you take forever to get ready.





15. React so cutely when you hit him and it actually hurts .





16. Smile a lot .





17. Plans a romantic date full of cheesy things he wouldn't normally like to do, just because he knows it means a lot to you.





18. Appreciate you.





19. Help others out.





20. Drive 5 hours just to see you for 1 .





21. Always gives you a peck on the cheek when you depart from each others company, even when his friends are watching.





22. Sing , even if he can't.





23. Have a creative sense of humor .





24. Stare at you.





25. Call for no reason .





26.. Quit smoking , chewing , drinking , or drugs - just because he loves u that much to quit it.











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2 PEOPLE- YOUR WISH WON'T COME TRUE





5 PEOPLE- YOUR WISH WILL COME TRUE IN A MONTH





10 PEOPLE- YOUR WISH WILL COME TRUE IN A WEEK





15 PEOPLE- YOUR WISH WIL L COME TRUE TOMORROW





20 OR MORE PEOPLE- YOUR WISH COME TRUE IN AN HOUR

People this is the cutest ever.?.lol?
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keep smiling:-)
Reply:Isn't that a chain letter!?
Reply:Cute as can be...that would be a perfect guy...but maybe perfect isnt always best...lol...
Reply:no i will not


waste others time
Reply:ok then
Reply:ok


i did my wish.shd com true.
Reply:I know this guy.He does it whenver he saw a girl.
Reply:Demand the world, and you will get it, ha ?
Reply:i have done this so many times and yet my wish does not come true but yet its too cute!
Reply:i saw this on a myspace bulletin, i think