Do attractive people really have an easier time in the mating game than unattractive people?

So many attractive people I know are having such a difficult time getting dates and sustaining relationships, while many of the plainer people I know have no trouble finding boyfriends and girlfriends and getting laid. Does being attractive (and smart, as many of these people are) make relationships with the opposite sex far more difficult and complicated. We all talk about wishing we were more attractive to the opposite sex, but at a certain point does attractiveness become a handicap for a man or a woman. I wondered if other people have stories of attractive people who were remarkably unlucky in love, or if they have a wider opinion on whether attractive people have it easier or not?

Do attractive people really have an easier time in the mating game than unattractive people?
Sometimes unattractive people are "afraid" or shy about attractive people. Also, sometimes guys think that a beautiful woman must have a hundred of boys behind her but that´s not true, Another true fact is that you have to be and feel secured of who you are and what you worth and don´t fell less than nobody. last thing, Feel beautiful and people will see you beautiful, fell lucky and you will be lucky, same rule with love and dating.
Reply:guy's are scared to ask out good looking woman think they will say no. but the real answer is who gets the best lover.
Reply:I don't think attractiveness is the only factor. Look at Jennifer and Brad. She is beautiful and he is handsome yet they were unable to maintain their marriage. It is just because they are still people under the flashing lights at the end of the day. They still fought about the trash going out or other issues for sure. Having money makes it easier, but money can not make someone love you. Look at Tom Cruise and Nicole. The are both attractive people and they could not stay together for unknown reasons. I have single friends that are plain and others that are attractive. Sometimes things are going well for them and sometimes it does not no matter if they are having a bad hair day. It is about the layer underneath the beautiful exterior that responds to life and the daily grind with glamour. Ugly people can look beautiful by being good, kind , helpful people. Attractive people can look ugly by being rude, unkind, uncaring people.
Reply:I think too many are too impressed with themself.
Reply:If he makes me laugh, you know really laugh, then I know he is going to be good!


I have had relationships with guys who knew they were real handsome studs, but it was all just looks, no personality, I soon get rid.


My present guy is not so blessed with looks, but he is so funny a natural comic.


I have no trouble with the opposite sex, however I have wised up, looks are pretty useless when your eyes are closed and you are having the big 'O'
Reply:There is a theory that very attractive people that are overly aware of their appearance, do not dig as deeply to be an interesting person.





Less attractive people, or people not obsessed with looks, have time and a priority of being a more rounded person.


Their dates find these folks easier to be around.
Reply:heck yeah


We get all the attention
Reply:Of course, when it comes to love, lust is what attracts people and starts it off. But of course longterm relationships can help too. But when they start to get to know us, we need to have a good attitude, don't be over-concerned, trust them in every way and don't do things like call at 6 am or force them to buy you gifts evertime they see you. That's what gets peoole dumped in the first place.