People say I am not always the same person. Is this normal?

It is like I develop different personalities according to the people I am with and the situation. My best friend wants me to be the same person and always tells me I am not always the same.





In a group of people she controls me, giving me that look as if to say what am I speaking to her for and constantly talks to me so nobody else will and draws attention to me saying I have white stuff on my pants and asking me if I am alright and will not let me even get food by myself, saying here darling I will help you.





People treat me how she treats me cause they think there is something wrong with me and she is just looking after me.





When I do not sit with her and talk to others she says comments like You have a mini skirt on tonight or hits me when she thinks people talk to me.





She is acting like my mother or my grand mother.





She also calls me darling and people think we are a pair of lesbians.





She will not let me change or break away.





Is it norm to b diff with diff people

People say I am not always the same person. Is this normal?
yes it is absolutely normal. im taking an 'interpersonal communications' class in my junior year of college right now and we just went over this.





it's called 'identity management'. you give off a different part of your personality with different people





for example, i don't act the same way i do around my parents the way i act around my close guy friends. i don't talk about the same things or say the same things





i also don't act the same way around my girlfriend i do around my friends sometimes. i try to be more kinda and sensitive to her feelings.





your not acting like a different person around them, your still yourself, but your just letting different parts of your personality come out differently around different people





you wouldn't act the same around your close friends as you would around co-workers at a business would you?





nothigns wrong with you, your fine
Reply:dude...you shouldnt put up with that. you dont need to be mean or anything, just try to break away.
Reply:Totally normal that you are different when you are with different people. Sometimes you are one way with your friend and another way with another person. You may feel that it is strange how come you feel more and more "not yourself" when you are with some people. That probably means you are feeling pressure from that person. This could be as small of an issue as peer pressure, and as big as an issue as your friend becoming possessive of you. This obviously doesn't mean you guys are becoming lesbians. Good friends who are always together typically develop this kind of complicated relationship, where expectations, rules, and everything you can imagine starts becoming as if it was "normal".
Reply:yes its defenetly normal!


when i''m w/my best friends i'm a total sycho party girl,when i'm w/friends i'm quiet and shy,when i'm w/my familly i'm a goody-goody who makes dumb jokes,when i'm w/my crush i'm a total flirtish prep chic!


so i think its normal or were just both not normal!lol!
Reply:yes. its normal, but you should confront your friend and tell her your just fine without her and people think your lesbians. it may seem harsh, but if she really is your best friend, she'll understand. but its just fine to act different around different people.
Reply:yes--- it could be mood swings or just how comfortable you are around certian ppl. dont worry!





best of luck %26lt;33
Reply:I think so. Not like completely different, but I notice different parts of my personality show through depending on who I am around.
Reply:yes' it's normal to be abnormal