Do you think people has the right to complain about someone they hate?

Well there are a lot of people out there who had been wrong by someone else and it was intentional and not by accidents.


Some examples:





- A guy had a crush on a girl and he did all he can for her but all she did was play with him and use him and she doesn’t even love him and was stringing three other guys.





-A person who say you are her best friend and big sister to your face but behind your back she would tell everyone that you are a liar and a bad friend and steals things from people.





-A friend who say she was trying to help you hook up with your crush but in the end dated him and say she was in love with him first and one week later dump him and tell everyone he is gay.





The people who were wrong always complain about the ones who did them wrong even after months or years. When bringing up the subject of that person it would cause them to be enrage and they would rant about what they think of the person and how they wrong them so much and how much they hate them. Sometimes when they complain to people about those kinds of people they would “say oh why do, you give a damn about them.” or “Oh quit complaining, so what if they wrong you get over it”, or “It’s all in the pass learn to forget and forgive.” Well I can forgive but never forget. Usually something like this would leave a mark and makes you always remember. You could always careless and less about it as times goes on but still you would remember how the person wrong you. For the people who always say why can’t you forget about it well it’s because they haven’t been affected by something like this so they just don’t want to let you have your feeling out because they don’t care. Well people who are wronged always make comment like they wish that person get hurt or die. Or even say they want to kill them and say how. But mostly they won’t do such things because they know it’s wrong but still the idea of saying such things is like therapy. It let out all there angers and make them feel a lot better and healthier. It’s a way to release stress. But still usually the ones who bottle it up would most likely be the ones who would really hurt or kill someone because it’s all bottle up inside and they would go crazy mentally and would hurt someone for it.





And by the way the person who wronged me even though I hate her so much I can’t really abandon her when she really needs to be rescues. Even though she is an ungrateful ***** I had always help her when no one else would. From when she was drunk in a party full of guys and to her graduation day when she disappeared because of her metal break down and I just comfort her and got her butt down. But still we aren’t friends anymore because I gave her too many chances but she would still lie and cheat. So I believe I have a right to complain about her at least to my closes friends and to people who don’t know her. But still she always complains that I’m lying that I have no right to talk about her. But still I never told anyone who like her or never know the true her that she is that way. Even her current best friend who doesn’t know anything about her pass or what kind of things she do like getting drunk and playing with peoples emotion all the time especially guys, I never told him anything about her and he is my friend also. I kind of feel sorry for him since he is so ignorant after all he had a crush on her and she told him that she isn’t ready to get into a relationship and the next thing we know it she started dating some guy and use him and dump him and tell everyone her ex was a bad person and just because he is ghetto looking everyone believes her. And her current best friend does was feel sorry for her for having a bad boy friend and wants to be with her but she said she can’t because she just got out of a relationship. I feel really sorry for the dumb fool but still as long as he wasn’t affected by the whole thing I believe I would never tell him anything about the true her.

Do you think people has the right to complain about someone they hate?
hmm, sounds like i know her! let me tell you....she will get hers one way or another. there is always a stronger person in the gym no matter how much you work out!


My ex g/f of over 3 years ago still to this day crawls under my skin. I still havent decided if she is in my head because shes a head player or i HATE her or still love her,but i do know that her boy toys and good looks will fade in time and only so much plastic surgery will eventually make her look like micheal jackson. :) ask yourself one thing. do you want drama in your life for the rest of your life or do you want to grow old fat and wrinkled and happy? let vain people figure out that the USE of another human being is USEless. It will catch up......all in time
Reply:yes
Reply:yes but hate ultimate hurts the hater a lesson i'm still learning
Reply:i think everyone needs to let go forgive and forget because they can't point the finger at someone else when they are in the wrong as well ....and neither should they hate...
Reply:You can vent all you want to, but people will get sick of hearing about it, and your constant complaints won't change what has happened. You cannot shield the world from this selfish person. You've already done your job of protecting your friends from being hurt by her because you've told them what she did to you, so now steer clear of her and leave it alone.

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